Men and women are different but they are more understanding, supportive, patient, are wiser, merciful and cooperative than boys and girls, if you look at the way Islam commands men and women to be, if you still are a boy or a girl post puberty then by all means jump into the well of realization and get a deep dunk. Dont be influenced by the western methodology of living life.. Stop wasting precious years of your life… The earlier you focus on your betterment and improvement… The brighter your future would be in shaa Allah. I say this focusing more on matters of deen and knowing your duties as a muslim man/woman, duties obliged upon you, that Allah has comnanded both men and women. The earliest years are for learning and creating that dedicated determined disciplined and wiser mindset. Dont let your brain develop on the garbage society feeds you honestly… That which you see from the kuffaar was never the way of living life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and the salaf, so don’t mix that up with Islam, under ignorance and influence of the kuffaar… dont say this is how Muslims should be, this is how our Prophet was etc, don’t lie upon the religion based on your ignorant presumptions. You do adapt to developing eras… But you dont leave your roots and foundations and understanding of Islam. Times may change but that doesn’t mean you compromise on the deen, and do more and more bidaah and avoid the matters of deen, just to please the kuffaar or satisfy your desires or to avoid feeling odd or afraid infront of non muslims…and live a consistently sinful life. It’s not too late for anyone though, we still are in the state of learning, but make sure your kids dont grow up like you did following the trends, having a sheep mentality.. Crowd chasers.. Quick dopamine chasers and chasing worldly goals over islamic knowledge, and seeking knowledge of islam from liberals. Nurture them and raise them up on a good and correct understanding of islam, and then you will see how both men and women are from the same planet, not different ones, different physiology, anatomy and emotional understanding but they aren’t alien to each other, or they might be from mars and venus but the understanding of religion will set them straight. And Allah knows best.